Love and the Housing Market..........

I remember in the late 70's when sexual promiscuity was probably at it's peak; there was a Joke that was indicative of the times. Remember this was before AIDS (1982)

But the joke went like this:

Q.What's the difference between Love and Herpes?

A.Herpes is forever..........


I use to have a blog called ask Ace. People with personal issues would write to me and ask for a "guy's" advice on their relationship. Well, I've decided to do the world a favor and devote the Cafe to nothing but Love and Relationships. It may come as a shock to some of you, but I've changed some of my POVs on relationships.

I use to think that finding the "right person" (or what some poor dillusional people call a "soul mate")was a one shot experience. If you blew it, you were corrupted.

But it really is no different from finding the right house. As a matter of fact, being a spouse is a lot like being a home owner. Not as much as being a car owner because new cars come out every year, but the same mind set still causes married people to look. So from that POV we are much like car owners. We want the newest sexiest models that only needs gas to keep it going.

Houses on the other hand are much more like spouses. Many poets have even referred to their loved ones as their "Homes". Your house is where you go to renew. It's where you go to relax. Your house knows everything about you. It knows how often you brush your teeth, wash your underwear and change the roll of TP.

And just as many families out grow their homes, couples also outgrow their relationships. If you're relationship is a strong one, you have the kind of house that is blessed with a great foundation that you can "add on to".

So instead of just giving up on the old house, you can grow the house you've become so comfortable in.

Socialized Medicine

SCOTT RASSMUSSEN ON THE PUBLIC'S PERCEPTION OF GOVERNMENT HEALTHCARE.
"No matter how bad the situation is; Congress can always make it worse".

Vaya Con Dios Michael Jackson

I know that to many musicians, I'm the only professional musicaian they've ever played with that performed Michael Jackson music.

I ALWAYS enjoyed Michael. Most of the time when the public was ridiculing him, I felt sorry for him. He was such an easy target for false accusations. I'll never forget the first time I played "Billie Jean" live. It led me to believe that everyone has some Michael Fan in them.

I remember the Jackson Five back in 1969. They were such a cool "Rock" group. They were Black, but they Rocked.

I hope this is the end of the Trilogy. Yesterday Ed McMahan checked out. This morning Farrah Faucet Checked out and now the King of Pop.

I'm really sad for America. Michael, I hope you're finally happy.



Sincerely,


Ace

My Christianity

Your salvation is your responsibility. It's not your religion's, the church's, your parents, or your Christian friend down the street that's going to determine your post-mortum status; But rather your inner drive to want to know what is right.

If you seek the answer with an open heart, you will find it.

My belief in Jesus Christ is MY approach to the after life. If someone shows me a better way, I'll have a look. But so far, the more I read of Islam, or Buddism or Hinduism or the New Age/Thought movement, the more Christianity "resonates" with me and the more confident I feel about my committment to "try" and live Christian values.

I say "try" because being human subjects me to sin on a daily basis. Being a physical being as well and owning a computer and a television makes it easy to fall victim to all sorts of sin. Yes, I sin frequently. I try not to and I'm better than I was 10 years ago, but the temptations of this physical life are great and abundant. When I finally stopped asking:"Well what's wrong with having sex with someone you're not married to, or why shouldn't I be able to abuse my own body with substances"; and just accepted that it was better for me to avoid these things all together, my life became much simpler and less confusing.

So for me it's a blessing to know that when I ask for forgiveness, I'm never turned away and I don't have to have a limb chopped off, nor do I have to strap a bomb to my body. God's plan is based on Love. Those who don't care to accept this Idea can congregate in a place in the after life where Love is not a requirement nor is it common practice.

I'm saying go find what resonates with you while keeping in mind that your puney existence on this rock could end any time. Find a moral authority that you can feel safe putting your future in and "try" to discipline your life accordingly.

Keep in mind, now is your 2nd chance. If you're lucky enough to wake up tomorrow, you'll have a 3rd chance, and so on, and so on.

After a while, it's hard to say that God is a cruel God when the ball is (and always has been) in your court. If you think the Christian God is cruel, by all means, go out and do your own thing. This is all mythology crap anyway right? Crap invented by prudes to keep people from having fun and to control others. If that's true; hey the jokes on us shmucks. (no big deal) BUT should all this rubbish about Heaven and Hell turn out to be true, well, hey, you can't say nobody told you about it.

With Love,

A

Obama; America's first dictator

Senator Jim Demint of South Carolina said it's time to start using the proper language when referring to Buckwheat. It's not the president of the USA, but rather the dictator leader of the USA. Demint states that according to our constitution, it is ill-legal for the goverment to own private enterprises. Thus the hostile take over of GM is the act of a dictator.

Who do you call to have him removed?

My Cyber Journey Through Racism

Terry Anderson and I haven't exchanged communications since he called me a racist for not supporting the dictator that is destroying our country. You know, the former Crack cocaine user from California that went to New York with no money and a month later was on a plane to Jakarta and Pakistan.


So I actually let it get to me. Was I a racist? I don't hate Obama because he's black. It's because he's a communist. Anyway, I've been browsing two sites. One is "The Obama Forum" which is nothing more than an anti-white "kill the devil" forum. I'm surprised they can use Obama's name. It's disgusting and I would not suggest anyone go there. Not only is it racist, but it's ignorant racist.

The other site I visited is the infamous "Niggermania" site. It's a unique site in that they don't bash Jews, or Asians or any other ethnicity except Blacks. I actually registered at this site to see if I could get a different perspective on why whites hate blacks. I might add that if you cut through the racism, there are some very bright racists at that site that reference sources for why they feel Blacks are an inferior race. They quote Albert Schweitzer in his 1961 book "My African Notebook" where Schweitzer claims he tried to bring modern science to the African continent, but the people were a sub-human race. They quoted Abraham Lincoln who said he made a mistake freeing slaves because he thought they would be repatriated to their homeland of Africa. He said he hadn't anticipated the result of 3 million blacks staying in the U.S. population in the mid 1800's.

I registered at this site so I could learn more about this anti black mentality. I asked the question:"Are all Blacks Niggers"?

I got banned suggesting that blacks were human.

So I failed at being a racist. So there's your answer Terry Anderson.

What did I learn?

What I learned is a reflection of the late great Reggie White's statement that so many in the pressed ridiculed him for being racist.

"All the races have virtues and short comings. They're just different". What I'm saying is, we're much like the animal kingdom. A polar bear is not the same as a Grizzly bear. Further more; you can't put the two in an environment without one getting killed. A Giraffe is not the same as an aardvark.

Albert Einstein once said:"It would be foolish to judge a fish on it's ability to climb a tree".

The problem with humans is that there are enough similarities for us to want to think we are all equal or the same. The truth is we are not. Which race is superior? Ask Einstein. Would it be right to judge Albert Schweitzer by his ability to climb a coconut tree?

I don't think these thoughts or Ideas are racist. I have come to define racism as the linear alignment of the human ethnicity's according one's personal stereotypes.

I won't stereotype the races (although I believe we all do) but I know that they're different. They're as different as Polar bears and Grizzly bears. Recently Wanda Sykes was interviewed and was talking about the press wanting know when they were going to see the "real Michelle Obama"? Then she said:"They just wanna see her go like this (she does the bobble head/talk to the hand gesture)and see her yell, get outta my house".


This is Wanda's stereotype of a black female.

Reggie White once said that all the races were blessed. He went on to stereotype how Jews were good with money, Native Americans were spiritual, and so on. He was criticized by everyone as being racist. But I feel Reggie spoke what we all know. We are all different. One wonders if Albert Schweitzer could survive the African wilderness on his own? Could Albert Einstein ever have a deep meaningful emotional relationship with a woman? Could Sun Tzu run a day care center? Could Paul McCartney play a right handed guitar?

Does it matter? NO !

The one element that we all share is the sense or vibration of right and wrong. Even with varied cultural mores; the existence of the human conscience runs common in all races. It's the part of God within us that separates us from the animal kingdom. But just as we are capable of accepting the gift of moral aptitude from God; we are also free to choose the absence of morality from Satan.

So in the end; it's not an issue of Black or White, but rather Good versus Evil.


Ace out.....

Psychic predictions for Obama Assassination

When ever I get depressed by the current political climate, I turn to the psychics on the internet. It seems there's never any shortage for predictions on Buckwheat's assassination.

The 2 I enjoyed reading were:

1. Buckwheat dies in a foreign land from a riffle shot. (isn't he going to Egypt next month?)

2. He will be blown up by a white male suicide bomber. (interesting) The logic here was that the SS can't throw themselves in front of a suicide bomber.

In my numoerous readings, I couldn't help but notice how many psychics kept saying they got really bad vibes from Buckwheat. Many said they saw dark auras around him.

Oh well. It was free reading on the internet. Who knows what June will bring?


Ace out....